Be Confident ...

          GOOD Morning.......CONFIDENCE:  Once all village peopledecided to pray for rain. Onthe day of prayer all peoplegathered and only one boy camewith an umbrella...... that'sConfidence...TRUST:  Trust should be like thefeeling of a one year old babywhen you throw him in the air;he laughs.....because he knowsyou will catchhim........ That'sTrust............  HOPE:  Every night we go to bed, wehave no assurance to get upalive in the next morning butstill we have plans for thecoming day..........that'sHope..........  BE CONFIDENT !    TRUST OTHERS!NEVER LOSE HOPE!

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You are now "IIM graduate"

This is a very cool way of explaining

A Professor from IIMs is explaining marketing concepts to all my BBM friends, Please pay attention, Sunday Crash Course:


1.. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to
her and say: "I am very rich.
"Marry me!" - That's Direct Marketing"


2.. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a
gorgeous girl. One of your friends goes up to her and
pointing at you says: "He's very rich.
"Marry him." -That's Advertising"


3.. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to
her and get her telephone number. The next day, you
call and say: "Hi, I'm very rich.
"Marry me - That's Telemarketing"


4.. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. You get up
and straighten your tie, you
walk up to her and pour her a drink, you open the door (of the car)for her,
pick up her bag after she drops it, offer her ride and
then say:"By the way, I'm rich. Will you
"Marry Me?" - That's Public Relations"


5.. You're at a party and see gorgeous girl. She walks
up to you and says:"You are very rich!
"Can you marry ! me?" - That's Brand Recognition"


6.. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to
her and say: "I am very rich. Marry me!"

She gives you a nice hard slap on your face. -
"That's Customer Feedback"


7.. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to
her and say: "I am very rich. Marry me!" And she
introduces you to her husband. - J
"That's demand and supply gap"


8.. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to
her and before you say anything, another person come
and tell her: "I'm rich. Will you marry me?" and she
goes with him -
"That's competition eating into your market share"


9. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to
her and before you say: "I'm rich, Marry me!" your
wife arrives. -
"That's restriction for entering new markets"

(*) Congratulation (*) you are now "IIM graduate".



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Gods Word

Don't be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, and making music to the Lord in your hearts.
Ephesians 5:18-19

The affects of alcohol are obvious, but what happens when we are under the influence of the Holy Spirit? In these verses, Paul lists three by-products of the Spirit's influence in our lives: singing, making music, and giving thanks. Paul did not intend to suggest that believers only discuss religious matters, but that whatever we do or say should be permeated with an attitude of joy, thankfulness to God, and encouragement of others.

Instead of whining and complaining—which our culture has raised to an art form—we are to focus on the goodness of God and his mercies toward us. How would others characterize your words and attitudes?

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Facts !!

#Fact of life:
V never accept our mistakes..
:)
#Fact of love:
V want our lover to be in contact with us alwz
:)
#Fact of studies:
V learn good things to do all bad things in a smart manner..
:)
#Fact about god:
V ve never seen him but v still believe him
:)
#Fact about parents:
Having god nearby and searching elsewhere
:)
#Fact about friends:
Cant even imagine a life without them..:):-



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7 facts about women:

7 facts about women:
1. Most important thing for women is financial independence!
2. Although this is important, they still go out & buy expensive clothes!
3. Although they always buy expensive clothes, they never have anything to wear!
4. Although they never have nothing to wear, they always dress beautifully!
5. Although they always dress beautifully, they are never satisfied!
6. Although they are never satisfied, they still expect men to compliment them!
7. Although they expect men to compliment them, when they do, they don't believe them!



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Buddha told his disciple

Once Buddha told his disciple, "I am thirsty, get me some water from the lake.

As the disciple reached the lake, a cow started crossing & the water became very muddy. So he came back and told Buddha, "The water is very muddy & is not fit to drink."

Again after sometime, Buddha sent him. By this time, the mud had settled & the water was clear. So he collected some water & took it to Buddha.

Buddha looked at the disciple and said,"See, to make the water clean, u let it be & the mud settled down on its own -- Your mind is like that too ! When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own. You don't have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless."

Having 'Peace of Mind' is not a strenuous job; it is an effortless process! So be calm & u will be happy.


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A man's aim in life

A man's aim in life :

Formula no . 7654321

7 digit earning.

6 digit saving.

5 room house.

4 wheeler.

3 week holiday

2 lovely girl friends.

1 SILENT WIFE!!!


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Gods Word

And "don't sin by letting anger control you." Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil.
Ephesians 4:26-27

The Bible doesn't tell us that we shouldn't feel angry, but it points out that it is important to handle our anger properly. If vented thoughtlessly, anger can hurt others and destroy relationships. If bottled up inside, it can cause us to become bitter and destroy us from within. Paul tells us to deal with our anger immediately in a way that builds relationships rather than destroys them.

If we nurse our anger, we will give Satan an opportunity to divide us. Are you angry with someone right now? What can you do to resolve your differences? Don't let the day end before you begin to work on mending your relationship.


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Golden Words :

Golden Words :

- Winning Isn't Everything,
But Wanting To Win Is .

- When Everything Is Lost,
The Future Still Remains

- Don't Fight Too Much
Otherwise Ur Enemy Would
Know Ur Art Of War

- If U Don't Stand For
Something, U Will Fall For
Everything

- If U Do Little Things Well,
U Will Do Big Ones Better

- Better To Fight For
Something Than Live For
Nothing ..



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Gods Word

He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins. He has showered his kindness on us, along with all wisdom and understanding.
Ephesians 1:7-8

Grace is God's voluntary and loving favor given to those he saves. We can't earn salvation, nor do we deserve it. No religious, intellectual, or moral effort can gain it, because it comes only from God's mercy and love. Without God's grace, no person can be saved.

To receive it, we must acknowledge that we cannot save ourselves, that only God can save us, and that our only way to receive this loving favor is through faith in Christ.

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Love Is

Luv defind by a 5 yr old girl-"Luv is wen he takes my chocolates nd cums back with its wraper!"
A 10 yr old girl-"Luv is wen we work for a project n he intensionally touches my hand trying to get a pen!"
A 15 yr old girl-"Luv is wen we get caught bunking nd he takes d blame!"
An 18 yr old girl-"Luv is wen at farewell he hugs me saying 'Keep in touch'!"
A 21 yr old girl-"Luv is wen he runs frm clg with me jst 4 a week long trip 2gether!"
A 26 yr old-"Luv is wen he proposes me with a rose nd makes a fool of himslf, and says 'u know i luv u'!!"
A 35 yr old woman-"Luv is wen he cleans d house seeing me tired"
A 50 yr old woman-"Luv is wen he is ill nd still cracks a joke just to make me laugh!"
A 60 yr old woman- "Luv is wen he is takng his last breath nd sayng, 'i'm glad as u know wat luv is..'
And leaves me with a tear 4ever..."
LOVE is d best feelin

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Good Article ....

I see myself shrieking at my parents, I am irritable with everyone. I get angry if people do not give me enough attention. I feel that if I do not get what I want, then I am not good enough."This aspect of not 'being good enough' is what signifies the important thing of our personality- our self-esteem. It basically denotes our self-worth, what we think of ourselves and our own capabilities.
Self-esteem can be built with conscious efforts. It can be said that, self-esteem is nothing but the way one thinks about oneself.
Higher the degree of belief in yourself, the higher is the self-esteem. A person's self-esteem is reflected in his/her behavior and etiquette and it encompasses the beliefs and emotions of the person.
"Self-esteem seems to be dependent to a large extent on the way we were treated when we were young. Constant positive reinforcement in the growing-up stage would lead us to feel good about ourselves. When we are very young, we depend on the way the world responds to us. If the overall feeling that we get from our significant environment- family and friends- is positive, we feel good about ourselves and go ahead positively with our lives," says Dr Kersi Chavda, consultant psychiatrist, P D Hinduja Hospital,
Mumbai.
"If the overall feeling is negative, we always feel inadequate about ourselves and this lands us into situations wherein we react in ways that may be inappropriate. While most
issues relating to self-esteem start in childhood, there are aspects of our later life which also play an important role," adds Dr Chavda.
Dayanand Kamath was constantly yelling at his wife and refused to do any work at home, even though they were both having stressful jobs. He was unhappy about the fact that she was earning more than he was and often insinuated that she got what she was making only because she used her charms on the management.
After a few months of trying to cope, she walked out on him. "My constant grouse at present is: why did I behave like a chump? I actually care for her very much," says Kamath.
"It is well-known that the emotions you earn, and the way you perceive your own job also plays an important role in the way you rate your own self. While it is true that a person, to some extent, is rated by his profession to believe that you are a better person if you do one or another kind of job, is to do yourself a disservice.
Self-esteem also unfortunately seems to depend on superficialities such as the clothes that one wears, the way one looks, and the holidays that one takes. Usually these hide a more serious feeling of inadequacy which is deep rooted," concludes Dr Chavda.
Tips for building self-esteem
- Concentrate on positives- on what is good rather than what is bad, on what
one is capable of doing, rather than what one cannot do.
- Avoid people who are constantly negative- who pass snide remarks. They probably have issues of their own.
- Figure out your own strengths and weaknesses. Focus on your strengths and accept that there will be parts of you that you may not like.
- Spend some time everyday on yourself. Do something that makes you feel good, or that reinforces what you can/cannot do. Learn a new skill, hone up your old ones.
-Try to be more positive to others. Being good to others has a tendency for you to also feel good about yourself.

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Beauty of Math! Look at the symmetry...

Beauty of Math!  Look at the symmetry...

1 x 8 + 1 = 9

12 x 8 + 2 = 98

123 x 8 + 3 = 987

1234 x 8 + 4 = 9876

12345 x 8 + 5 = 98765

123456 x 8 + 6 =

9876541234567 x 8 + 7 =

987654312345678 x 8 + 8 =

98765432123456789 x 8 + 9 =

9876543211 x 9 + 2 = 11

12 x 9 + 3 = 111

123 x 9 + 4 = 1111

1234 x 9 + 5 = 11111

12345 x 9 + 6 =

111111123456 x 9 + 7 =

11111111234567 x 9 + 8 =

1111111112345678 x 9 + 9 =

111111111123456789 x 9 +10=

11111111119 x 9 + 7 = 88

98 x 9 + 6 = 888

987 x 9 + 5 = 8888

9876 x 9 + 4 = 88888

98765 x 9 + 3 =

888888987654 x 9 + 2 =

88888889876543 x 9 + 1 =

8888888898765432 x 9 + 0 =

888888888Brilliant, isn't it?

And look at this symmetry:

1 x 1 = 1

11 x 11 = 121

111 x 111 = 12321

1111 x 1111 =

123432111111 x 11111 =

123454321111111 x 111111 =

123456543211111111 x 1111111 = 1234567654321

11111111 x 11111111 = 123456787654321

111111111 x 111111111=12345678987654321

Now, take a look at this...

101%

From a strictly mathematical viewpoint:

What Equals 100%? What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?

Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%?

We have all been in situations where someone wants you to GIVE OVER 100%.

How about ACHIEVING 101%?

What equals 100% in life?

Here's a little mathematical formula that might help answer these questions:

If:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Is represented as:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26

If:

H-A-R-D-W-O-R- K

8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

And:

K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E

11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

But:

A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E

1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:

L-O-V-E O-F-G-O-D

12+15+22+5+15+6+7+15+4 = 101%

Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical

certainty that:

While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

It's up to you if you share this with your friends &

loved ones just the way I did.

Have a nice day & God bless!!

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Ram's msg 2 Sita:

Ram's msg 2 Sita:

Dear Sita,Hie wasup?Mene google se search karke tujhe dunda hai.Lakshman misses u alot &me bahut jaldi tujhe Ravan k yaha se le jaonga.Mene DOCOMO ka sim liya he mujhe msg free hain.mene Ravan se baat ki hai.usko mene mobile par bohot galiya di,saale ne ye bol k call kaata ki battery low hai.So me tujhe micromex ka dual sim wala mobile or 1GB memory card ke sath sad song bharke Hanuman k hath bhej raha hu.Ab hum raat bhar baat krenge,Laxman rechrge karne gaya hai.Tujhe roaming nahi lagega.Chal baad me cal karta hu.R u on facebook??Ager he to me tumhe request bhejeta hu.ok.bye miss u sita..




ur janu.....



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Gods Word

Don't be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant. Those who live only to satisfy their own sinful nature will harvest decay and death from that sinful nature. But those who live to please the Spirit will harvest everlasting life from the Spirit.
Galatians 6:7-8

It would certainly be a surprise if you planted corn and pumpkins came up. It's a natural law to reap what we sow. It's true in other areas, too. If you gossip about your friends, you will lose their friendship. Every action has results.

If you plant to please your own desires, you'll reap a crop of sorrow and evil. If you plant to please God, you'll reap joy and everlasting life. What kind of seeds are you.


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Definition ....

School:
A place where
papa pays & son plays :D

Life insurance:
A contract that keeps you poor all your life so that you can die rich ;)

Marriage:
its an agreement in which a man looses his bachelors degree and a women gains her masters ;)

Dictionary:
A place where success comes before work :)

Smile:
A curve day can set a lot of things straight :)

Doctor:
A person who kills ur ills by pills n kills U by bills..!:)......


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Alone .....

Alone to cry,
Alone to laugh,
Alone to smile,
Alone to frown.

Alone to live,
Alone to die,
Alone to wander,
Alone to discover.

Alone in pain,
Alone in hurt,
Alone in joy.

Alone in the morning,
Alone in the night,
Alone in the afternoon,
Alone in this life,
Alone in this world.

Alone in boredom,
Alone in knowledge,
Alone in this state.

Alone with People,
Alone at school,
Alone right now,
Alone when i was born,
Alone when i will die.

‎​Alone walking through life,
without any pride,
How can you be satisfied,
Living your life like you do,
when you know there is some one out there,
who could realy use a friend like you.

No one will know how i live,
No one will know who i am,
No one will ever get to know me,
Because i am destined to spend ma life alone.

Wanting to hv someone,
To live ma life with,
But fr nw,
‎​i wil continue alone,
And al alone..



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All About A Girl

All About A Girl:

"Wen she is quiet,millions of things r running in her mind.

Wen she is not arguing,she is thinking deeply.

Wen she stares at u,she is wondering why u r lying.

Wen she calls u everyday,she is seeking ur attention.

Wen she sms u everyday,she wants u 2reply at least once.

Wen she says i love u,she means it.

Wen she says i miss u,no one in dis world can miss u more dan her.

Girls r always special.She is said 2b 8th wonder.She is always a priceless treasure.Never hurt her or take her wrong.
Forward 2every girl 2make her smile n 2every boy 2make dem realise:)"


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Why students fail in exams..

Why students fail in exams..
8hrs of sleep daily=122 days
365-122=243
Summer holidays=61 days
243-61=182
Sundays per year=52
182-52=130
Festival holidays=40
130-40=90
3 hours of daily playing=46 days 90-46=44
Winter holidays=15
44-15=29
1 hour chating daily=15days
29-15=14
Sickness days=10
14-10=4 days
Film time in a year=3 days
4-3=1
Remaning 1 day is their b'day.
AB US DIN KAUN PADHTA HAI.
Matlab hum logo ki galti nahi. Saal ka din kam padte hai....!



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Gift Some thing to Every One out of what U have

A little boy went to an Ice Cream Shop & asked, How much a larg cup costs.
Waiter: Rs 15.

The boy starting counting, how much n his pocket.

Then he asked, how much a small cup costs.
Waiter: Rs 12.

The boy asks for a small cup. He had it. Paid bill & left.

When the Waiter come to pick the empty cup, he had tears in his eyes 2 see that the boy had left Rs. 3 as a tip for him.

SO ALWAYS TRY TO GIFT SOMETHING 2 EVERYONE OUT OF WHATEVER LITTLE U HAVE.


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Gods Word

Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spirit's leading in every part of our lives.
Galatians 5:25

God is interested in every part of our lives, not just the spiritual part. As we live by the Holy Spirit's power, we need to submit every aspect of our lives to God—emotional, physical, social, intellectual, vocational. Paul says that because we're saved, we should live like it!

The Holy Spirit is the source of your new life, so keep in step with his leading. Don't let anything or anyone else determine your values and standards in any area of your life.


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Friendship Is . . .

Friendship . . .

. . . is you.
. . . is love.
. . . is shared.
. . . is forgiving.
. . . is understanding.
. . . is shared secrets.
. . . heals many hurts.
. . . is not judgmental.
. . . is shared laughter.
. . . is slow and steady.
. . . can be angry at times.
. . . is dependable and true.
. . . is more precious than silver or gold.
. . . is meant to be savored like fine wine.
. . . is not perfect, much like we are not perfect.
. . . does not hold grudges or demand perfection.
. . . makes all the wrong things in life, right somehow.
. . . is meant to be gulped like lemonade on a hot summer day.
. . . is always there, through times of trial, happy times and hard times.
. . . just happens, but once discovered, needs to be tended like a beautiful garden.
. . . is a road to be traveled slowly, remembering the sights and sounds.
. . . is strength when you are too weak to notice its there.
. . . is a cherished moment of mutual understanding.
. . . reaches into your heart and grabs a firm hold.
. . . is a refreshing rain on a hot day.
. . . is sunshine through the clouds.
. . . cannot be forced or induced.
. . . is relaxed and comfortable.
. . . is a shoulder to lean on.
. . . is an ear to whine to.
. . . gets better with age.
. . . is shared tears.
. . . is shared pain.
. . . is shared joy.
. . . is shared.
. . . is love.
. . . is you.({})


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Points On How to Improve Ur Life...

POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE.

Personality:

1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. .

2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment

3. Don't over do; keep your limits

4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does

5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip

6. Dream more while you are awake

7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..

8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.

10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present

11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you

12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learners are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

13. Smile and laugh more

14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. .

Community:

15. Call your family often

16. Each day give something good to others

17. Forgive everyone for everything

18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6

19. Try to make at least three people smile each day

20. What other people think of you is none of your business

21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch. Life:

22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.

23. GOD heals everything

24. Do the right things

25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change

26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up

27. The best is yet to come

28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful

29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it

30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy


,;*"*;,
*;,R,;*
__)(__ajesh Gubbala

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God has fallen in love with U

Ever considered the God has fallen in love with u ?

He sends u flowers every spring..
He sends you sunshine every morning..
whenever u want to talk, he listens to you.
He can live anywhere in d universe but he chooses U. Ur heart. Face it frnd, he is crazy abt u.

God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow,
sun without rain..
but he did promise
strength for the day,
comfort for d tears n light for d way.

Send this to every nice person you wish to bless. I just did..

,;*"*;,
*;,R,;*
__)(__ajesh Gubbala

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Gods Word

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
Galatians 4:22-23

The fruit of the Spirit is the spontaneous work of the Holy Spirit in us. The Spirit produces these character traits that are found in the nature of Christ. They are the by-products of Christ's control—we can't obtain them by trying to get them without his help.

If we want the fruit of the Spirit to grow in us, we must join our lives to his. We must know him, love him, remember him, and imitate him. As a result, we will fulfill the intended purpose of the law—to love God and our neighbors. Which of these qualities do you want the Spirit to produce in you?



,;*"*;,
*;,R,;*
__)(__ajesh Gubbala

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Be Satisfy with Ur Status

*If you are in love:
-Get the best of it
-Forget the bad things
-Enjoy it BCoz nothing lasts forever:)

*If you just broke up:
-Never cry! Remember that u were happy
-Never stay alone! Ur friends are there
-Hug more people
-Stop listening to music! It only makes things worse..
-Start partying hard.
-U have only lost sum one who dint intend to b a serious part of ur life anyway:)

*If you are single & alone:
-Play, play & play! No one can blame you
-Party every night
-Enjoy every opportunity
-Never stop looking for someone;)
-Make d best of d time:)

*If you are married:
well,
its GAME OVER!


,;*"*;,
*;,R,;*
__)(__ajesh Gubbala

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Useful chain message on BBM

This is the first useful chain message on BBM, so please Just Read It And Understand

1 - Never send religious message chains, seriously, it doesn't work. It just shows your hypocrisy.

2 - Don't write anything in your status that mentions or insults another person.

3 - No one is "happy", 3 hours later ''mad'', 1 hour later "bored'', then ''sad'' or "angry", etc. Go to a shrink or search for some professional help. Do not declare it publicly.

4 - If your girlfriend or boyfriend / wife or husband, cheats on you.... Please understand that no one is interested to know that you and ur partner broke up and ur calling him a retard So, don't write it in your status.

5 - If you want to text someone so badly, respect his/her ''busy'' status if its on. And people please don't try to act busy by putting on ur so called "busy" status.

6 - Don't change your Nickname/status, like 500 times a day. Its not cool anymore, it would just let everyone know how lifeless you are.

7 - For god sake Blackberry hackers and viruses don't exist. The Blackberry and I-Phone are virus free technologies.

8 - No dead woman will haunt/sleep with you if u don't re send this chain.

9- stop broadcasting the match scores we own a TV thank you :)

10- There is no phone company in the world that is going to give a poor family some money every time you broadcast this msg

11- THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE!!! BBM providers are NOT going to "delete" or "remove" you if you Don't broadcast a stupid msg.


,;*"*;,
*;,R,;*
__)(__ajesh Gubbala

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Remember Ur Old friends

This is dedicated to
all my close ones.....,

A 60 year old man,
sitting on a bench,
with his Mercedes
parked behind him,

latest model of
Rolex watch in his wrist,

blackberry bold in hand,

Armani suit,

checkbook of
swiss account,

still had
TEARS in his eyes.....
why.....??

BCoz he saw
a gang of college guys
on another bench having
a celebration of birthday
of 1 of them.....
When you miss
your Friends n
old days,

even luxury cant stop
your tears..


,;*"*;,
*;,R,;*
__)(__ajesh Gubbala

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Gods Word

October 18, 2010

For the whole law can be summed up in this one command: "Love your neighbor as yourself." But if you are always biting and devouring one another, watch out! Beware of destroying one another.
Galatians 5:14-15

When we are not motivated by love, we become critical of others. We stop looking for good in them and see only their faults. Soon the unity of believers is broken.

Have you talked behind someone's back? Have you focused on others' shortcomings instead of their strengths? Remind yourself of Jesus' command to love others as you love yourself.

When you begin to feel critical of someone, make a list of that person's positive qualities. If there are problems that need to be addressed, it is better to confront in love than to gossip.


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It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Show up naked
2. Bring food
3. Don't talk too much


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L-O-V-E-O-F- G-O-D

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Is represented as:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.

If:

H-A-R-D-W-O- R- K
8+1+18+4+23+ 15+18+11 = 98%

And:

K-N-O-W-L-E- D-G-E
11+14+15+23+ 12+5+4+7+ 5 = 96%

But:

A-T-T-I-T-U- D-E
1+20+20+9+20+ 21+4+5 = 100%

THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:

L-O-V-E-O-F- G-O-D
12+15+22+5+15+ 6+7+15+4 = 101%

Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:

While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

It's up to you if you share this with your friends & loved ones just
the way I did..

God bless y☺u and enjoy your weekend

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How to keep a woman happy.... Priceless!

How to keep a woman happy.... Priceless!

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. A friend
2. A companion
3. A lover
4. A brother
5. A father
6. A master
7. A chef
8. An electrician
9. A carpenter
10. A plumber
11. A mechanic
12. A decorator
13. A stylist
14. A sexologist
15. A gynecologist
16. A psychologist
17. A pest exterminator
18. A psychiatrist
19. A healer
20. A good listener
21. An organizer
22. A good father
23. Very clean
24. Sympathetic
25. Athletic
26. Warm
27. Attentive
28. Gallant
29. Intelligent
30. Funny
31. Creative
32. Tender
33. Strong
34. Understanding
35. Tolerant
36. Prudent
37. Ambitious
38. Capable
39. Courageous
40. Determined
41. True
42. Dependable
43. Passionate
44. Compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. Give her compliments regularly
46. Love shopping
47. Be honest
48. Be very rich
49. Dont stress her out
50.Dont look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

51. Give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. Give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. Give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Leave him alone

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Make People Laugh

How to know if u are Normal :D.

1. U have a facebook account

2. U have a blackberry

3. U watch MTV

4. U r fully aware of adult stuff

6. U register to unlimited text

7. U sleep late

9. U were so busy u forgot to read number 5

10. U actually scroll up again to see if there is number 5(don't worry coz there is no number 8 as well )

11. Now u are smilin, possibly laughing 2 yurself. Then u realize, perhaps u r not normal as you once thought lol.=))

Pass this on n make everywun laugh!


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WARREN BUFFET (world's Richest Man & No.1 Investor) shares his lessons as

WARREN BUFFET (world's Richest Man & No.1 Investor) shares his lessons as-

EARNINGS: Never depend on a single income. Make investment to Create a Second Source.

SPENDING: If you buy things you do not need, soon u wil Have to Sell things you need.

SAVINGS: Don't save what is left after spending but spend what is left After Savings.

TAKING RISK: Never test the depth of the river with Both Feet.

INVESTMENT: Don't put all your eggs in a single basket.


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Have Strange Mind ???

fi yuo cna raed tihs, yuo hvae a sgtrane mnid too.

Cna yuo raed tihs? Olny 57 plepoe can.

i cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg.

Hte phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm.

Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! if you can raed tihs forwrad it.


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What our body Parts Means ...m

We Have Two Eyes & One Tongue,
Which Means We Need to Look Twice & Talk Once..

We Have Two Ears & One Mouth,
Which Means We Need to Listen More than We Talk..

We Have Two Hands & One Stomach,
So We Need to Work Twice as Much as We Eat..

We Have Two Major Brain Parts, Left & Right & One Heart,
So We Can Think Twice, But Love Only Once..

Amazing How Our Body Parts Remind Us How to Live..


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How to Identify Citizens Of India

HOW TO IDENTIFY CITIZENS OF INDIA:  

Scenario 1 .

Two guys are fighting. A third guy comes along, sees them and walks on.
  
That's MUMBAI 

Scenario 2  

Two guys are fighting. Both of them take time out and call their friends on their mobiles. Now 50 guys are fighting.   

You are definitely in PUNJAB !!! .

Scenario 3

Two guys are fighting and a third guy comes along and tries to make peace.  

The first two get together and beat him up.  

That's DELHI  .

Scenario 4  

Two guys are fighting. A crowd gathers to watch.  
A guy comes along and quietly opens a Chai-stall.

That's AHMEDABAD .

Scenario 5  

Two guys are fighting and a third guy comes. He writes a software program to stop the fight. But the fight doesn't stop because of a virus in the program.
That's BANGALORE  .

Scenario 6  

Two guys are fighting. A crowd gathers to watch. A guy comes along and quietly says that "AMMA" doesn't like all this nonsense.  

Peace settles in....  

That's CHENNAI  

Scenario 7  

Two guys are fighting and a third guy comes along, then a fourth  

and they start arguing about who's right. You are in KOLKATA .
Scenario 8  

Two guys are fighting. Third guy comes from nearby house and says,  

"Don't fight in front of my place, go  somewhere else and keep fighting".  

That's KERALA !

And the best one is ....  

Scenario 9  

Two guys are fighting. Third guy comes along with a carton of beer.  

All sit together drinking beer and abusing each other and all go home as friends.   

You are in GOA!!!



That's INDIA for you!  

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Facts

Fact of life: V never accept our mistakes.

Fact of love: V want our lover to be in contact with us always.

Fact of studies: V learn good things to do all bad things in a smart manner.

Fact abt god: V hv never seen him but v still believe him.

Fact abt parents: Having god nearby and searching else where.

Fact abt friends: Cant even imagine a life without them.

Fact of this msg: V fwd it to people whom v really care n miss.;):)


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Not the thing some body is Raciest .

Hi all ,Its not the thing some body is Raciest .

One thing  is Clear that nobody is perfect.
May be Gandhi is a racist but he is a great leader who z one fought for our Nation.

I've seen some Article about Gandhi long back. In that Gandhi went with his friends to prostitute and he realised that its not the way he should do these as a leader then came back from that place. This shows,the attitude.

Also one small story where i've gone through, in a family therez a child who likes sweets a lot.

He used to eat sweets by stealing some money from his house then, his mother bought her son  to Gandhiji to "tell him not to eat sweets'' . Then Gandiji told her to bring her son after a week.

Then she bought her son after a week, Gandhiji told her son not to eat sweets more which affect the health.
Why Gandhiji takes a week to say this to Children ?

bec'z Gandhiji likes Sweets alot. He stopped eating sweets for a week , after that he told to Child "not to eat sweets a lot (where its not good for health).
This shows the Attitude.

Yes, Great leaders like Swamy vivekanandaetc have Attitude

I came across many articles about gandhiji's life, therez many controversy regarding him

yes, Great one will have more controversy like Jesus--DAVINCI CODE

I THINK ITS BETTER NOT TO GO WITH CONTOVERSY, REGARDING A GREAT LEADER.

(Be the change you want to see in the world----mahatma)


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Dengue Cure

I would like to share this interesting discovery from a classmate's son who has just recovered from dengue fever.

Apparently, his son was in the critical stage at the ICU when his blood platelet count drops to 15 after 15 liters of blood transfusion.His father was so worried that he seeks another friend's recommendation and his son was saved.
He confessed to me that he gave his son raw juice of the papaya leaves. From a platelet count of 45 after 20 liters of blood transfusion, and after drinking the raw papaya leaf juice, his platelet count jumps instantly to 135. Even the doctors and nurses were surprised. After the second day he was discharged.

So he asked me to pass this good news around.Accordingly it is raw papaya leaves, 2pcs just cleaned and pound and squeeze with filter cloth.

You will only get one tablespoon per leaf.. So two tablespoon per serving once a day. Do not boil or cook or rinse with hot water, it will loose its strength. Only the leafy part and no stem or sap.

It is very bitter and you have to swallow it like "Won Low Kat". But it works.*Papaya Juice - Cure for Dengue*You may have heard this elsewhere but if not I am glad to inform you that papaya juice is a natural cure for dengue fever. As dengue fever is rampant now, I think it's good to share this with all.A friend of mine had dengue last year..

It was a very serious situation for her as her platelet count had dropped to 28,000 after 3 days in hospital and water has started to fill up her lung. She had difficulty in breathing.

She was only 32-year old. Doctor says there's no cure for dengue. We just have to wait for her body immune system to build up resistance against dengue and fight its own battle.

She already had 2 blood transfusion and all of us were praying very hard as her platelet continued to drop since the first day she was admitted.

Fortunately her mother-in-law heard that papaya juice would help to reduce the fever and got some papaya leaves, pounded them and squeeze the juice out for her.

The next day, her platelet count started to increase, her fever subside. We continued to feed her with papaya juice and she recovered after 3 days!!!

Amazing but it's true. It's believed one's body would be overheated when one is down with dengue and that also caused the patient to have fever papaya juice has cooling effect.

Thus, it helps to reduce the level of heat in one's body, thus the fever will go away. I found that it's also good when one is having sore throat or suffering from heat.

Please spread the news about this as lately there are many dengue cases. It's great if such natural cure could help to ease the sufferings of dengue patients.

Furthermore it's so easily available.Blend them and squeeze the juice! It's simple and miraculously effective!! 
Rajesh Gubbala

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Overcome Ur fear

Understanding And Overcoming Fears

We are all afraid of something. We all have fears at some point or other during our lives, and one fear brings about other fears. For example, the fear of death brings about the fear of illness or the fear of accidents. The fear of rejection comes from the fear of being perceived as different. The fear of success or standing out comes of the fear of relating to people. From the fear of failure comes the fear of making mistakes; the fear of taking on risks; the fear of taking decisions, the fear of not being recognized at work. The fear of others includes the fear of the anger and aggressiveness in others, fear that they might reject you, fear that they might judge you.

 

Eliminating fears and liberating the mind requires a broad knowledge of how our mind and spirit work. Our spiritual conscience has to awaken for us to realize what the origin of our fears is and how to overcome them from the root. Fears are like a tree; we can cut off a branch, but then other branches or fears will grow. We have to go to the root and, even, the seed, to overcome the fears.

 

Tomorrow we shall list out some of the common fears.

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Good Joke !!!

Two little boys, aged 8 and 10, were extremely mischievous. They were always getting into trouble and their parents knew all about it. If any mischief occured in their town, the two boys were probably involved.

The boys' mother heard that a preacher in town had   been successful in disciplining children, so she asked if he would speak with her boys.

The preacher agreed, but he asked to see them  individually.

So the mother sent the 8 year old first, in the   morning, with the older boy to see the preacher in the afternoon.

The preacher, a huge man with a booming voice, sat the   younger boy down and asked him sternly,  "Do you know where God is, son?"

The boy's mouth dropped open, but he made no response, sitting there wide-eyed with his mouth hanging open.
So the preacher repeated the question in an even   sterner tone, "Where is God?!"
Again, the boy made no attempt to answer.

The preacher raised his voice even more and shook his finger in the boy's face and bellowed,  "Where is God?!"

The boy screamed and bolted from the room, ran directly home and dove into his closet, slamming the door behind him.

When his older brother found him in the closet, he asked, "what happened?"

The younger brother, gasping for breath, replied, "We   are in BIG trouble this time....."



".............. GOD is missing, and they think we did it !!!!!!!!!!!! "

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Inspired from these Words

The capacity for hope is the most significant fact of life. It provides human beings with a sense of destination and the energy to get started. The past is a source of knowledge, and the future is a source of hope. Love of the past implies faith in the future.

Hope is a renewable option: If you run out of it at the end of the day, you get to start over in the morning. My hopes are not always realized, but I always hope. While there's life still living and breathing, there will always be hope..........!
 
Don't worry about your fears but concentrate on your hopes and dreams. Think not about your frustrations, but about your unfulfilled potential. Concern yourself not with what you tried and failed in, but with what is still possible for you to do.

The important thing is not that we can live on hope alone, but that life is not worth living without it. Hope begins in the dark, the stubborn hope that if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come. You wait and watch and work: you don't give up...........!
 
Good Morning! Another bright and beautiful Saturday is here for all of us to enjoy! I hope and pray all of you have had a great start to your weekend. Take care and be safe in all that you do.

God bless you and all your loved ones! Enjoy your weekend and rest and relax to rejuvenate yourselves for the week ahead. Remember to exercise and eat right and make the choice to live the healthy lifestyle.


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Gods Word ---- Made to Make a Difference

Made to Make a Difference

Somewhere in the midst of it all, it hit you. You realized that these days are more than ice cream trips, homework, and pimples. This is called life. And this one is yours. You've been given your life. No one else has your version.

Live in the right way, serve God, have faith, love, patience, and gentleness. Fight the good fight of faith, grabbing hold of the life that continues forever. You were called to have that life when you confessed the good confession before many witnesses.
I Timothy 6:11-12

We are created by a great God to do great works. He invites us to outlive our lives, not just in heaven, but here on earth.

God has not given us what we deserve. He has drenched his world in grace. It has no end. It knows no limits. It empowers this life and enables us to live the next.

Here's a salute to a long life: goodness that outlives the grave, love that outlasts the final breath.

May you live in such a way that your death is just the beginning of your life.

Rajesh Gubbala

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Different Styles Of Leadership

A very good article on different styles of leadership, go thru this mail and check in which style do u suit.

Popular Leadership Styles – A Glossary
The leadership theories and styles discussed so far are based on research. However, many more terms are used to describe approaches to leadership, even if these don't fit within a particular theoretical system. It's worth understanding these!

1. Autocratic leadership

Autocratic leadership is an extreme form of transactional leadership, where leaders have absolute power over their workers or team. Staff and team members have little opportunity to make suggestions, even if these would be in the team's or the organization's best interest.

Most people tend to resent being treated like this. Therefore, autocratic leadership usually leads to high levels of absenteeism and staff turnover. For some routine and unskilled jobs, the style can remain effective because the advantages of control may outweigh the disadvantages.

2. Bureaucratic leadership

Bureaucratic leaders work "by the book." They follow rules rigorously, and ensure that their staff follows procedures precisely. This is a very appropriate style for work involving serious safety risks (such as working with machinery, with toxic substances, or at dangerous heights) or where large sums of money are involved (such as handling cash).

3. Charismatic leadership

A charismatic leadership style can seem similar to transformational leadership, because these leaders inspire lots of enthusiasm in their teams and are very energetic in driving others forward. However, charismatic leaders can tend to believe more in themselves than in their teams, and this creates a risk that a project, or even an entire organization, might collapse if the leader leaves. In the eyes of the followers, success is directly connected to the presence of the charismatic leader. As such, charismatic leadership carries great responsibility, and it needs a long-term commitment from the leader.

4. Democratic leadership or participative leadership

Although democratic leaders make the final decisions, they invite other members of the team to contribute to the decision-making process. This not only increases job satisfaction by involving team members, but it also helps to develop people's skills. Team members feel in control of their own destiny, so they're motivated to work hard by more than just a financial reward.

Because participation takes time, this approach can take more time, but often the end result is better. The approach can be most suitable when working as a team is essential, and when quality is more important than speed to market or productivity.

5. Laissez-faire leadership

This French phrase means "leave it be," and it's used to describe leaders who leave their team members to work on their own. It can be effective if the leader monitors what's being achieved and communicates this back to the team regularly. Most often, laissez-faire leadership is effective when individual team members are very experienced and skilled self-starters. Unfortunately, this type of leadership can also occur when managers don't apply sufficient control.

6. People-oriented leadership or relations-oriented leadership

This is the opposite of task-oriented leadership. With people-oriented leadership, leaders are totally focused on organizing, supporting, and developing the people in their teams. It's a participative style, and it tends to encourage good teamwork and creative collaboration.

In practice, most leaders use both task-oriented and people-oriented styles of leadership.

7. Servant leadership

This term, created by Robert Greenleaf in the 1970s, describes a leader who is often not formally recognized as such. When someone, at any level within an organization, leads simply by meeting the needs of the team, he or she is described as a "servant leader."

In many ways, servant leadership is a form of democratic leadership, because the whole team tends to be involved in decision making.

Supporters of the servant leadership model suggest that it's an important way to move ahead in a world where values are increasingly important, and where servant leaders achieve power on the basis of their values and ideals. Others believe that in competitive leadership situations, people who practice servant leadership can find themselves left behind by leaders using other leadership styles.

8. Task-Oriented leadership

Highly task-oriented leaders focus only on getting the job done, and they can be quite autocratic. They actively define the work and the roles required, put structures in place, plan, organize, and monitor. However, because task-oriented leaders don't tend to think much about the well-being of their teams, this approach can suffer many of the flaws of autocratic leadership, with difficulties in motivating and retaining staff.

9. Transactional leadership

This style of leadership starts with the idea that team members agree to obey their leader totally when they accept a job. The "transaction" is usually the organization paying the team members in return for their effort and compliance. The leader has a right to "punish" team members if their work doesn't meet the pre-determined standard.

Team members can do little to improve their job satisfaction under transactional leadership. The leader could give team members some control of their income/reward by using incentives that encourage even higher standards or greater productivity. Alternatively, a transactional leader could practice "management by exception" – rather than rewarding better work, the leader could take corrective action if the required standards are not met.

Transactional leadership is really a type of management, not a true leadership style, because the focus is on short-term tasks. It has serious limitations for knowledge-based or creative work.

10. Transformational leadership

As we discussed earlier, people with this leadership style are true leaders who inspire their teams constantly with a shared vision of the future. While this leader's enthusiasm is often passed onto the team, he or she can need to be supported by "detail people." That's why, in many organizations, both transactional and transformational leadership are needed. The transactional leaders (or managers) ensure that routine work is done reliably, while the transformational leaders look after initiatives that add value.

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Indian Money In Swiss Bank

Latest update after Swiss Bank has agreed to disclose the funds&.

Our Indians' Money - 70, 00,000 Crores Rupees In Swiss Bank

1) Yes, 70 lakhs crores rupees of India are lying in Switzerland
banks. This is the highest amount lying outside any country, from
amongst 180 countries of the world, as if India is the champion of
Black Money.

2) Swiss Government has officially written to Indian Government that
they are willing to inform the details of holders of 70 lakh crore
rupees in their Banks, if Indian Government officially asks them.

3) On 22-5-08, this news has already been published in The Times of
India and other Newspapers based on Swiss Government's official letter
to Indian Government.

4) But the Indian Government has not sent any official enquiry to
Switzerland for details of money which has been sent outside India
between 1947 to 2008.. The opposition party is also equally not
interested in doing so because most of the amount is owned by
politicians and it is every Indian's money.

5) This money belongs to our country. From these funds we can repay 13
times of our country's foreign debt. The interest alone can take care
of the Center s yearly budget. People need not pay any taxes and we
can pay Rs. 1 lakh to each of 45 crore poor families.

6) Let us imagine, if Swiss Bank is holding Rs. 70 lakh Crores, then
how much money is lying in other 69 Banks? How much they have deprived
the Indian people? Just think, if the Account holder dies, the bank
becomes the owner of the funds in his account.

7) Are these people totally ignorant about the philosophy of Karma?
What will this ill-gotten wealth do to them and their families when
they own/use such money, generated out of corruption and
exploitation?

8) Indian people have read and have known about these facts. But the
helpless people have neither time nor inclination to do anything in
the matter. This is like "a new freedom struggle" and we will have to
fight this.

9) This money is the result of our sweat and blood.. The wealth
generated and earned after putting in lots of mental and physical
efforts by Indian people must be brought back to our country.

10) As a service to our motherland and your contribution to this
struggle,please circulate at least 10 copies of this note amongst your
friends and relatives and convert it into a mass movement.

Rajesh Gubbala

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Hi friends,A must read for every one to know our strengths and weakness,  i have attached the worksheet as well, plz give a try its a worth analysis, let me know if u have any trouble in understanding this.  
SWOT Analysis is a powerful technique for understanding your Strengths and Weaknesses, and for looking at the Opportunities and Threats you face
Making the Most of Your Talents and Opportunities.
You are most likely to succeed in life if you use your talents to their fullest extent. Similarly, you'll suffer fewer problems if you know what your weaknesses are, and if you manage these weaknesses so that they don't matter in the work you do.So how you go about identifying these strengths and weaknesses, and analyzing the opportunities and threats that flow from them? SWOT Analysis is a useful technique that helps you do this.

What makes SWOT especially powerful is that, with a little thought, it can help you uncover opportunities that you would not otherwise have spotted. And by understanding your weaknesses, you can manage and eliminate threats that might otherwise hurt your ability to move forward.

If you look at yourself using the SWOT framework, you can start to separate yourself from your peers, and further develop the specialized talents and abilities you need to advance your career.

How to Use the Tool
Strengths• What advantages do you have that others don't have (for example, skills, certifications, education, or connections)?• What do you do better than anyone else?• What personal resources can you access?• What do other people (and your boss, in particular) see as your strengths?• Which of your achievements are you most proud of?• What values do you believe in that others fail to exhibit?• Are you part of a network that no one else is involved in? If so, what connections do you have with influential people?Consider this from your own perspective, and from the point of view of the people around you. And don't be modest or shy – be as objective as you can.And if you have any difficulty with this, write down a list of your personal characteristics. Some of these will hopefully be strengths!• Weaknesses• What tasks do you usually avoid because you don't feel confident doing them?• What will the people around you see as your weaknesses?• Are you completely confident in your education and skills training? If not, where are you weakest?• What are your negative work habits (for example, are you often late, are you disorganized, do you have a short temper, or are you poor at handling stress?• Do you have personality traits that hold you back in your field? For instance, if you have to conduct meetings on a regular basis, a fear of public speaking would be a major weakness.Again, consider this from a personal/internal perspective and an external perspective. Do other people see weaknesses that you don't see? Do co-workers consistently outperform you in key areas? Be realistic – it's best to face any unpleasant truths as soon as possible.• Opportunities• What new technology can help you? Or can you get help from others or from people via the Internet?• Is your industry growing? If so, how can you take advantage of the current market?• Do you have a network of strategic contacts to help you, or offer good advice?• What trends (management or otherwise) do you see in your company, and how can you take advantage of them?• Are any of your competitors failing to do something important? If so, can you take advantage of their mistakes?• Is there a need in your company or industry that no one is filling?• Do your customers or vendors complain about something in your company? If so, could you create an opportunity by offering a solution?You might find useful opportunities in the following:• Networking events, educational classes, or conferences.• A colleague going on an extended leave. Could you take on some of this person's projects to gain experience?• A new role or project that forces you to learn new skills, like public speaking or international relations.• A company expansion or acquisition. Do you have specific skills (like a second language) that could help with the process?Also, importantly, look at your strengths, and ask yourself whether these open up any opportunities – and look at your weaknesses, and ask yourself whether you could open up opportunities by eliminating those weaknesses.

• Threats

• What obstacles do you currently face at work?

• Are any of your colleagues competing with you for projects or roles?

• Is your job (or the demand for the things you do) changing?

Does changing technology threaten your position?

• Could any of your weaknesses lead to threats?

Performing this analysis will often provide key information – it can point out what needs to be done and put problems into perspective. A Personal

SWOT Example

What would a personal SWOT assessment look like? Review this SWOT analysis for Carol, an advertising manager.

• Strengths

• I'm very creative. I often impressing clients with a new perspective on their brands.• I communicate well with my clients and team.

• I have the ability to ask key questions to find just the right marketing angle.• I'm completely committed to the success of a client's brand.

• Weaknesses

• I have a strong, compulsive need to do things quickly and remove them from my "to do" list, and sometimes the quality of my work suffers as a result.

• This same need to get things done also causes me stress when I have too many tasks.

• I get nervous when presenting ideas to clients, and this fear of public speaking often takes the passion out of my presentations.

• Opportunities• One of our major competitors has developed a reputation for treating their smaller clients poorly.

• I'm attending a major marketing conference next month. This will allow for strategic networking, and also offer some great training seminars.

• Our art director will go on maternity leave soon. Covering her duties while she's away would be a great career development opportunity for me.

• Threats• Simon, one of my colleagues, is a much stronger speaker than I am, and he's competing with me for the art director position.

• Due to recent staff shortages, I'm often overworked, and this negatively impacts my creativity.

• The current economic climate has resulted in slow growth for the marketing industry.

Many firms have laid off staff members, and our company is considering further cutbacks.

As a result of performing this analysis, Carol takes the bold step of approaching her colleague Simon about the art director's maternity leave.

Carol proposes that both she and Simon cover the job's duties, working together and each using his or her strengths. To her surprise, Simon likes the idea.

He knows he presents very well, but he admits that he's usually impressed by Carol's creative ideas, which he feels are far better than most of his.

By working as a team, they have a chance to make their smaller clients feel even better about the service they're getting. This takes advantage of their competitor's weakness in this area.

Key Points

A SWOT matrix is a framework for analyzing your strengths and weaknesses as well as the opportunities and threats that you face. This helps you focus on your strengths, minimize your weaknesses, and take the greatest possible advantage of opportunities available to you

Rajesh Gubbala

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Some Laws Einstein missed out to state...

Some Laws Einstein missed out to state...

1) Law of Queue:
If u change queues, d one u have left will start to move faster than d one u are in nw.

2) Law of Telephone:
When u dial a wrong no., u nvr gt engaged one.

3) Law of Mechanical Repair:
After ur hands bcome coated wid grease, ur nose wl begin 2 itch.

4) Law of Workshop:
Ne tool, whn dropped, wl roll 2 d least accessible corner.

5) Law of Alibi:
It u tel ur boss u r late 4r work bcause u hd flat tire, d next mrng u wl hv a flat tire.

6) Bath Theorem:
Whn d body is immersed in water, d phone rings.

7) Law of Encounters:
D probability of meetin some1 u knw increases whn u r wid some1 u dnt want 2 b seen wid.

8) Law of d Result:
Whn u try 2 prove 2 someone dat a machine wont work, it will!

9) Law of Biomechanics:
The severity of d itch is inversely proportional 2 d reach.

10) Law of Coffee:
As soon as u sit down 4r a cup of coffee, ur boss wl ask u 2 do somethin which wl last until d coffee is cold.

Rajesh Gubbala

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Some Laws Einstein missed out to state...

Some Laws Einstein missed out to state...

1) Law of Queue:
If u change queues, d one u have left will start to move faster than d one u are in nw.

2) Law of Telephone:
When u dial a wrong no., u nvr gt engaged one.

3) Law of Mechanical Repair:
After ur hands bcome coated wid grease, ur nose wl begin 2 itch.

4) Law of Workshop:
Ne tool, whn dropped, wl roll 2 d least accessible corner.

5) Law of Alibi:
It u tel ur boss u r late 4r work bcause u hd flat tire, d next mrng u wl hv a flat tire.

6) Bath Theorem:
Whn d body is immersed in water, d phone rings.

7) Law of Encounters:
D probability of meetin some1 u knw increases whn u r wid some1 u dnt want 2 b seen wid.

8) Law of d Result:
Whn u try 2 prove 2 someone dat a machine wont work, it will!

9) Law of Biomechanics:
The severity of d itch is inversely proportional 2 d reach.

10) Law of Coffee:
As soon as u sit down 4r a cup of coffee, ur boss wl ask u 2 do somethin which wl last until d coffee is cold.

Rajesh Gubbala

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How to make a girl happy....

How to make a girl happy?

It's nt difficult 2 make a girl hapy.
A man only needs 2 b:
1.a friend
2.a companion
3.a lover
4.a chef
5.an electrician
6.a carpenter
7.a plumber
8.a mechanic
9.a decorator
10.a stylist
11.a psychologist
12.a psychiatrist
13.a healer
14.a good listener
15.an organizer
16.a good father
17.very clean
18.sympathetic
19.athletic
20.warm
21.attentive
22.intelligent
23.funny
24.creative
25.strong
26.undrstnding
27.tolerant
28.ambitious
29.capable
30.courageous
31.determined
32.true
33.dependable
34.passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

35.giv her compliments regularly
36.love shopping
37.be honest
38.be very rich
39.not stress her out
40.not look at other girls!

See, its nt dat tough to make a girl happy


Rajesh Gubbala

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Help frm God

A little boy wanted Rs.50 very badly and prayed for weeks, but nothing happened.

Finally he decided to write God a letter requesting the Rs.50.

When the postal authorities received the letter addressed to God , INDIA , they decided to forwardit to the President of the India as a joke.

The President was so amused, that he instructed his secretary to send the little boy Rs.20.

The President thought this would appear to be a lot of money (Rs.50) to a little boy,and he did not want to spoil the kid.

The little boy was delighted with Rs...20, and decided to write a thank you note to God, which read:"Dear God: Thank you very much for sending the money.

However, I noticed that you sent it through the Rashtrapati Bhavan(President House) in New Delhi, and those donkeys deducted Rs.30 as tax ....... "
Rajesh Gubbala

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How to Write e-mails Effectively

Hi friends,

Another good article on writing an effective e-mail

1. Determine Your Desired Outcome

Most people know roughly what they want, but do not take the time to clearly think it through. This is how we end up with ambiguous or rambling email. Without a clear understanding of our desired end results, our thoughts are disorganized and we can easily confuse the receiver.

There are 4 types of email:

1. Self Fulfilling Email – The email itself is the point. You want to tell the receiver something, either a compliment or information. No reply is necessary.

2. Inquiries - You need something from the receiver in the form of a reply. For example, advice, or questions answered. The reply is your desired outcome.

3. Open-Ended Dialog – to keep communication lines open, for the purpose of some future result or benefit.

4. Action Emails – The goal is not the reply, but some action on the part of the receiver. For example, a sales pitch, or asking for a website link exchange. Which type of email are you sending? What is your desired outcome?

The clearer your intention, the more focused you will be, the better you can cater email for the intended result, the more likely you will get your desired outcome.

2. Quickly Answers, "What's the Point?"

People want to know "what do you need from me?" Answer this question quickly. Skip long introductions, backgrounds, compliments and details. Jump to the point. State it clearly using minimal words.

If action is needed, make it clear what the desired action is from the recipient.

And if no action or reply is expected, say that! "No reply necessary." It'll be like music to their ears.

3. State Benefits Clearly

If a pitch is presented, make sure it includes many clearly stated, easily understood benefits for the receiver.

Too many pitchy emails focus solely on the sender and why the action will benefit the sender. If you don't present incentives, or they are difficult to understand, the receiver will say no – resulting in a waste of time for both.

Also, make sure the incentives are realistic, the exchange is fair, and there truly are benefits to the receiver. Do your homework before contacting someone. Put yourself in their shoes, "Would you act on the offer?"

Example, emailing a high profile website like

lifehacker for a link exchange is not a fair exchange. It's called spam. If they don't display links to other sites, likely they won't display yours.

4. Remember to KISS

KISS = Keep it simple, stupid (I didn't come up with this)

When we send out a long email asking for something from the receiver (time, favor, etc), we are essentially saying "I do not respect your time." Show them you appreciate their time, by making email short, and simple to answer.

Using as little words as possible, introduce who you are, context if necessary, and why you are emailing.

Being brief doesn't mean we have to be boring. We can be creative with our wording, add a dash of personality where you see fit, but still be brief.

5. Save the Whole Story – Stick to the Facts.

People tend to say too much in email. We feel compelled to describe all the details and disclose the whole of our existence so that the receiver can understand the whole picture. Truth is, unless you already know this person well, they really don't care.

Unless asked, you don't need to overly elaborate anything. Simply stick to the facts – it'll help you keep your message short.

6. Pretend Face-to-face Intro

If you just met someone new at a party, would you open your mouth first and give them a rambling story about your life? Probably not. Typically, we close our mouth after a quick intro. In email, stopping talking is equivalent to hitting the send button.

Treating email introductions as if you are meeting them in person is another trick to keeping messages short.

7. Text Message Trick
When we are on mobile devices like the blackberry or our cell phones, we lack the fluidity of the computer keyboard, and as such, we get to the point really fast.

Now, pretend you're on a mobile device, what would your message be now?

8. Avoid Excessive Compliments

Some people have the idea that the more compliments they throw out, the more likely the receiver will comply with their offer/need/pitch.

There is a difference between being genuine and saying what's on your heart, and going out of your way to compliment someone. We humans are exceptional at detecting unauthentic phrasings and remarks – even in email.

Compliment only if you really mean it. And remember to be brief if you need action from the receiver.

9. Be Personal and Personable

Personalize email with relevant remarks to the receiver, put in a quick comment about their site, product or work. Address the person by name, sign email with your own name, and a friendly comment like "Enjoy your weekend!"

10. Make it Easy to Be Found

In your signature, include appropriate URLs for your website, blog, portfolio or product. Make sure the links are functional so they can read more about you in one-click.

11. Use Simple English

When the writing is too formal or uses irrelevant technical lingo, it is difficult for laymen to understand. Plus, you come off sounding like a legal document or spammer. Neither is good.

Write like you talk, using conversational English. Be authentic and realistic.

Trying to sound professional will come off as if you are trying to sound professional. Use your real voice – it's more endearing and approachable.

12. Font Matters

There is nothing worse than opening an email and become blinded by the brightness elicited by all the words displaying in bold. It makes me want to instantly close the email for the sake of protecting my eyes.

Alternatively, fonts that are too small, too large, or otherwise hard to read (ie. 8 point, times roman font, all bold.) makes us not want to read the email as well.

Beware of your fonts in your 'presentation'. Do not bold the entire email, use easy to read fonts (ie. Arial), and use a standard size. Do not use extravagant colors since they don't work well on all monitors and can be hard to read.

13. Formatting Matters

Make emails easy to read and quick to scan by using bullet points, numbered lists, and keeping paragraphs short. Highlight keywords (bold or italic) for emphasis, without over doing it.

14. Minimize Questions

Ask questions that matter, and limit the number of questions and favors you ask in an email (one or two max). The more questions (especially open-ended ones) asked in one sitting, the less likely you are to get a response, and the less likely all your questions will be answered.

Also, ask specific questions instead of a general open-ended ones. Be reasonable and thoughtful when asking. Don't expect the recipient to solve all our life problems. For example, "How can I get rich quick? How can I become successful?" are too broad. Break them down into specifics and ask the one question that really matters.

You can send additional questions in separate emails. Key is in keeping the line of communication open by not overwhelming the receiver.

15. Trimming of Words

Like grooming a garden, read through the finished email and trim out words, sentences, and paragraphs that do not contribute towards your desired result.

Check for potential ambiguities and unclear thinking. Can you rephrase sentences for clarity using fewer words? Check for excess commentary that doesn't add to the email's main point. Remove extra details disclosed, unnecessarily

Rajesh Gubbala

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